Emergence of the Movement’s “Founder” In 2013, Edward Lisovsky from Saint Petersburg noticed that an unknown individual had sent him photos on VKontakte. Strangers often insulted him online with messages like, “I have three children, and you’re a dickhead,” and “A bastard like you should be dead.” However, this time, the young man was genuinely frightened, as the photos showed him from behind. Edward chose not to respond. An hour later, the stranger wrote that they knew where Lisovsky drank his coffee in the morning. The conversation ended with the phrase, “Watch your back.” Since 2012, Edward Lisovsky had been creating and developing communities on VKontakte with the goal of selling advertisements. He had a network of public groups dedicated to topics like computer games, movies, Apple products, and more. One day, while browsing comments to find an idea for a new themed community, Edward saw a post from a young woman who complained about her mother pressuring her to have children. In response, Edward created a community for people who didn’t want to become parents, calling it Childfree. In the first week, the group gained 3,000 members. Within a month, it grew to 150,000, and by the following year, 2013, it had reached 1 million subscribers. “I believe there was a significant social demand [for this kind of community],” Edward says. “Back then, I received many messages like, ‘Thanks to your community, I realized that I’m not the only one being pressured into having children.’” Lisovsky explains that the core idea of the community wasn’t that having children is bad. On the contrary, it emphasized that becoming parents is best when you have the financial resources, a healthy relationship with your partner, and a genuine desire to do so—not because of societal pressure or stereotypes. He was unable to sell advertisements in the Childfree community, as advertisers couldn’t figure out what to offer to such an audience. Various Russian-language resources, including Wikipedia, list Edward Lisovsky as the founder of the childfree movement. However, he himself believes that childfree cannot truly be called a movement, as there is no organizational structure. Olga Shnyrova, head of the Ivanovo Centre for Gender Studies, agrees, drawing a comparison between childfree individuals in Russia and the United States: “In the U.S., there were various organizations and associations that united childfree people. This has never existed in Russia.” For Edward Lisovsky, childfree is more of an ideology, a perspective on life. “I used to think that I didn’t want to have children, but now I have a son. I have no connection to the childfree movement anymore. I don’t run any public groups, and I just want to live a peaceful life.” In 2013, VKontakte blocked the Childfree community at the request of the prosecutor’s office in Saint Petersburg. Despite this, the Russian authorities rarely addressed the childfree movement in the 2010s. In 2015, State Duma deputy and defender of "traditional values" Vitaly Milonov asked the Ministry of Health to study the childfree phenomenon and determine whether it was a deviation from the psychiatric norm for an adult. However, Milonov's proposal did not progress further. In 2021, the Saint Petersburg deputy resumed his criticism of childfree. He appeared on the Doc.Talk show on Channel One alongside Edward Lisovsky and claimed that every girl "dreams of a baby" before falling asleep. That same year, Edward Lisovsky temporarily left Russia after a friend in the security services warned him that the authorities were planning to designate the childfree movement as extremist. Lisovsky believes he became the "founder" of the childfree movement by mistake. When Milonov raised the issue, journalists often called Lisovsky for comments, and media reports gradually turned him from "the creator of a childfree community" into "the founder of the childfree movement." The government resumed discussions about banning childfree in February 2022. Senator Margarita Pavlova announced that the Federation Council had proposed including childfree content on the list of unlawful materials that could be blocked without a court ruling. Exactly one year later, in 2023, State Duma deputies introduced a bill suggesting a ban on the distribution of information "promoting voluntary refusal to have children" among minors. |